Identity verification for safer dating

Know who you’re really talking to.

Before you meet someone from a dating app, check their DiscreetMeet ID. If they’re a verified member, you’ll see it instantly — real identity, confirmed age, one person.

Works with or without the DM- prefix.

Try a sample:

No account needed. Just enter the ID they gave you.

What is a DiscreetMeet ID?

A DiscreetMeet ID is a unique number issued to a member after they pass a one-time identity check. When someone shares their ID with you, you can look it up here and confirm — in seconds — that a real, verified person stands behind it.

Verification confirms identity and age on the date it was completed. It is deliberately honest about its limits: it is not a background check and does not vouch for anyone’s behavior. It removes the single biggest unknown in online dating — is this person even real?

Get verified

  • Government photo ID

    A genuine government-issued photo ID is reviewed for authenticity.

  • Live selfie match

    A live selfie is matched to the ID photo to confirm it’s the same person.

  • 18+ confirmed

    Every verified member is confirmed to be at least 18 years old.

  • One person, one ID

    Each ID is unique — no duplicates, no shared or recycled numbers.

How it works

Three simple steps stand between you and a catfish.

  1. 1

    They get verified

    Your match completes a one-time identity check on Telegram and receives a unique DiscreetMeet ID.

  2. 2

    They share their ID

    They send you their DiscreetMeet ID — for example DM-100000 — before you meet.

  3. 3

    You look it up here

    Enter the ID on this page. Instantly see whether it belongs to a real, verified member.

1:1
Live selfie matched to photo ID
18+
Age confirmed for every member
Unique
One verified ID per person
Masked
Real names never shown in full

Affiliated with

Trusted across the platforms you date on

DiscreetMeet works with leading dating platforms. Meet someone on one of these? Ask for their DiscreetMeet ID and confirm they’re verified before you meet.

  • Ashley Madison
  • BeNaughty
  • AdultFriendFinder
  • Seeking
  • Zoosk
  • OkCupid
  • Plenty of Fish
  • Match

Platform names and logos are the property of their respective owners and are used to indicate affiliation. DiscreetMeet is an identity-verification service and is not operated by these platforms.

Frequently asked questions

Clear answers about what verification does — and doesn’t — mean.

It confirms that, on the verification date shown, the member passed a one-time identity check: a genuine government photo ID was reviewed, a live selfie was matched to that ID, the member was confirmed to be 18 or older, and the ID is unique to one person. It confirms identity and age — nothing more.

Get verified, or check an ID now.

Give the people you meet peace of mind — and get the same in return. Verification takes minutes and happens entirely on Telegram.

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